Join The Conversation About Motherhood & Writing

I am over at Confidently Connected Moms, a private Facebook Group run by author and journalist Christa Melnyk Hines all day today.

If any of these topics sound interesting to you moms, please feel free to join the group and participate in the discussion when you have a spare moment!

This will be one of the deepest conversations about the writing life that I’ve ever had, so you don’t want to miss it!

For The Love Of Writing Discussion

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In my first book, Writer Mama, I outline four principles every writer should strive to embody.

Those principles are: preparation, practice, professionalism, and poise.

Yesterday morning, one of my long-time students and friends, Christa Melnyk Hines, was on Fox 4 News, Kansas City, discussing the importance of talking politics with our spouses and kids.

And she embodied all four of these principles perfectly. Take a look.

Here are some of Christa’s key quotes from the interview:

“Kids are, by nature, they’re curious. They want to know what’s going on, and I know as a mom, there are moments when I want to cover their ears, but you know what? We have to tap that curiosity and really engage them. Ask them open-ended questions. Play the devil’s advocate. Push back a little bit. Listen to what they’re saying. They’re coming home from school every day with different things that they’ve overheard, so why not get them involved and talk about those issues that matter?”

“It’s a matter of teaching them to be critical thinkers, to think about things from different sides of the coin, not just one way of thinking about things because is black and white in life, as we all know, so definitely get them talking about it, and listen. Listen to what they have to say. Some of the things they say may really surprise you.”

“I think you have to decide,  we’re not going to be throwing insults at each other if we’re going to discuss this. I think it can really raise the anxiety level for kids,” she says. “If it gets too emotional at some point you have to at some point say, ‘Let’s agree to disagree and maybe come back to this later.’ I think those are all positive ways. What we don’t want to do is raise the anxiety level of our kids, but also model to them that it’s okay to disagree, that we can still love each other and have differing opinions. There’s nothing wrong with that.”

Christa is an award-winning freelance journalist, author and connection expert. She writes about the numerous ways that healthy connection helps us build meaningful relationships in the digital age. Her articles appear monthly in national and regional publications around the world. She is the author of Confidently Connected: A Mom’s Guide to a Satisfying Social Life and Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.

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Writing and making appearances isn’t all that Christa does well, she also runs an online Facebook Group called, Confidently Connected Moms. I will be making an all-day appearance there on Wednesday to discuss For The Love Of Writing: Writing As A Path To Self-discovery & Family Closeness.

If this is a topic that interests you, I hope you will join Christa’s discussion group and participate in Wednesday’s discussion. I know life is busy, but you can come any time of day or night and participate, and everyone who comments during the 24 hours of my appearance will be eligible for a free gift from me.

So come on over and meet Christa and the other moms! Hope to see you there!

Source: Fox 4 News, Kansas City

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I’ve Created A Safe, Distraction-free Online Learning Space

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We are living in a pretty distracting world right now.

One that is so distracting that we can’t deny the mind-numbing effect of 24-7 social engagement.

I love technology. I love the Internet. I love social media. But none of those things love me back. So I try to remember that I am the boss of all of them.

And then I quietly focus myself and dive back into my own work.

This habit of diving back into my work over and over has paid off mightily over the years.

I have set a good example for other writers, who have followed my lead.

I earn thousands of dollars a year from the ideas that stream from my mind through my fingers, onto the screen, and then onto the page, and eventually make their way in front of other eyes.

This is what I wanted to do when I grew up and I’m doing it.

I also coach others how to write and how to become incrementally more successful writing.

I coach writers in how to find their own ideas, their own techniques, their own voice, and how to keep expanding their techniques until they become professionals or more professionally successful.

Anyone can write. But not everyone who writes is a professional. And not everyone who is a professional is a happy person.

I am a happy person and a writing professional. One of my proudest accomplishments, in the many years of my career, is creating a safe, distraction-free online learning space, where folks can cheerfully learn.

I just added a ten-minute bonus feature to one of my courses and it gave me so much pleasure to make that course even just a little bit more valuable without raising the price.

You see, I know where the good stuff is. The good stuff is coming through you in the form of ideas and impulses. And when I teach, I remember where the distractions are. They are everywhere. And they challenge you every day to listen to yourself or constantly react to all the things happening outside of you.

Responding to what is going on outside of you is better than reacting to it. But what is best of all is continually choosing what you are going to say and how you are going to say it.

Staying mindful in a chaotic world is what today’s professional writers need to do. And that’s what I teach.

Being successful at anything starts with being true to yourself. I teach writers how to be true to themselves because writers who are true to themselves cannot be false to anyone else.

I am responsible not only for what I write and also for what I encourage others to write. And I urge you to write deeply and meaningfully from your heart and soul rather than just skimming along the surfaces of life’s daily dialogue.

Focus, writers. Focus on what you care about and what you have to say about it.

And ignore everything else that is irrelevant to your path.

That’s our responsibility today, writers: to become as good at tuning out the static as we are skilled at using our best skills to make the world a better place.

Now get in there — into your distraction-free zone — and write.

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My Clients Rock! Here’s Why…

My Clients Rock!

My clients often:

Get book deals

Are invited to appear on TV

Sell ebooks globally

Are consistently published

Feel great about themselves and their work

Speak at events

Are prolific

Sell their work over and over

Impress agents and editors

Sign their books joyfully

Have good boundaries

Are published in national publications

Reach out to new markets

Master social networking

Break out of their comfort zones

Attract unique opportunities

Bounce back from a slumps

Network with ease

Spin-off original products from their writing

Are total professionals

Use their writing for advocacy

Cash steady checks

Win awards and prizes

Make onward and upward progress

Treat me with respect and appreciation (which is mutual)

Know that they are making a positive dent in the Universe

My track record speaks for itself. If you are interested in one-time or ongoing writing coaching, please get in touch. You can learn more about my rates here. I hope to work with you!

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Ten Things You May Not Know About Me

Christina Katz: Ten Things You May Not Know About Me

The fact that I am a writer, a journalist, an author and a writing coach is not news around here. I am not sure there actually are ten things you guys didn’t know about me, but I will give it a shot.

I dye my hair and plan to for another decade. I am neither proud nor ashamed of this. I wish I didn’t have to do it because it’s time-consuming, but I always choose a stylist I like and I’m still friends with past stylists. When I’m ready to go electric silver, you will probably notice. Right now, I’m going brunette as a last hurrah.

I love hot springs. I am currently planning a trip to one with a friend. I am also planning a retreat for women at a hot spring. Get on my email list if you don’t want to miss the announcement. Think 2017.

I use collage as a form of creative meditation. I am a fairly visual person, so the ritual of looking, cutting, and pasting is soothing to my busy mind. I collage journals, forms, and posters to help me connect more deeply with myself.

I have dealt with anemia on and off throughout my life. I am grateful that I’ve found Vitanica, a supplement company that focuses on health support for women by a woman. If you ever suffer from anemia, I highly recommend Iron Extra. If you want to recover from anemia in the long run, it’s important to make time for your joys in life. Since I’ve been doing this more consciously, I just keep getting better and better.

I love decorating a small space—think vingettes. I don’t usually have time to redo a whole room, so I just do a little section at a time. You can see my photos of these projects if you follow me on Instagram and Facebook, where I’ve been posting a daily photo lately. It’s been a great way for me to make more time to do something I enjoy.

I like to focus on the moment more than the future or the past. If you make me choose between the future and the past, I will always choose the future. Unlike many, I am optimistic about the future. I have faith in us. We’ve got this.

I have become more detached about what people think of me. This does not mean that someone can’t hurt my feelings by being unkind. They don’t usually even have to say anything, since I’m fairly empathic. I have learned that what I think about me is more important than what anyone else thinks and I have made connecting with positive people into a practice.

I am sober. I’ve been sober for over 21 years. I don’t enjoy being around people who are drinking or who drink often. Sobriety is the awesome and I highly recommend it to anyone who needs it. I am going to offer a class in my online school on how to get and stay sober, because we can never have too many resources for the one in ten people who suffer.

My work introduces me to all kinds of people, but whether I am working or not, I like the company of deep, thoughtful, spiritually inclined people best. I think everyone has a universe of gifts to share with the world, but some folks ignore or squander what’s going on inside. I like to be around the folks who are not afraid to unfold their potential.

Self-expression is my most important value. It comes into play in every arena of my life. I doubt this is news, but, for me, what I am expressing today is more important than where I was born or where I went to school or any of that kind of stuff. Expressing myself is how I inspire myself and others. It is the reason I am here.

What about you? Have you written a post like this in your blog lately? If you’d like to share, I challenge you to create a similar post and then come back and link to it in the comments. Please only link responses to this post. Look forward to hearing what you share. I also look forward to witnessing what you have to express in the world.

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Writing For Regional Parenting Publications For Fun & Profit Quote By Christina KatzWhen the going gets tough, those who are committed become more determined.

On the other hand, when the going gets tough, that’s when a lot of folks quit or find something else bright and shiny to focus on instead.

I like getting out and about in the professional writing scene because I catch a glimpse of the writers who didn’t give up. And I would like to write about one of those writers today.

I met Gary Corbin at the Willamette Writers Conference eleven years ago. We were both there, in 20o5, to pitch our book concepts. We both pitched well and we both made an impression on pitching practice agents and editors. But then, somehow, I got a book deal for my nonfiction book and Gary didn’t get a book deal for his novel.

Flash forward to earlier this year. Gary should have given up by then. After all, over a decade had gone by and he still did not have a book deal for his novel. This means traditional publishing wasn’t smiling on his idea, his writing or him. That may sound like a harsh way of putting it, but I suspect this is probably how Gary felt.

But guess what? Traditional publishing doesn’t get to have the last word on your book concept, your writing, or you. You get to have the last word. And right now, Gary is having the last word, and then another last word, and then another, and another, and another because he’s taken the success of his novel into his own hands. And he’s doing so well that he’s self-published his second novel, and he’s working on his third.

fink_body-300x250Earlier this year, Gary self-published his novel, Lying In Judgment, and committed himself to getting the word out about it. When I interviewed Gary at the Willamette Writers Conference as an impromptu part of my presentation on platform development for writers, he said that every time someone said they didn’t think they could sell his novel, he would think, “I know how to sell it.”

For years, he kept getting rejected, and they kept saying the same thing. And every time they did, Gary kept thinking that he knew how to present, position, and sell his book. And in the interim he made his book better. A lot better. He said over a dozen people had read the book and given him feedback before he self-published it. And this was smart. Because maybe those people, who were saying no all those years were too polite to say, “We don’t know how to sell this, and oh, you need to make it better, too.”

Writers are not exactly inclined to make things better unless someone asks them to. I mean, we are always hoping, wishing, and praying that our last best effort was good enough, right? And sometimes it is and sometimes it isn’t. In Gary’s case, after over a decade of working on his novel, he zoomed past the finish line to publication-quality writing.

A lot of writers don’t know what publication-quality writing is. And that’s okay. The key is, if you don’t know what that means and you want to be published, either by yourself or by a publisher, you need to not only find out what publication-quality means, you need to write that way. And learning to write well enough might take you some time, and money, and classes, and practice–lots of practice.

Even in the Internet age, I think some folks are still confused about writing and publishing. I think they still want to believe that writers just sit down, write crap, wave a magic wand over it, and then they are done. But that’s not how it works at all. Writers craft in drafts. Writers draft and draft and draft. And then they draft some more. And in between those drafts, they get feedback. They get feedback from professionals, not pals. They work with folks who can help them become better writers, who often cost money to hire. These people are always picky and sometimes are even fairly ruthless on the page. Ruthless, for example, in eliminating typos or word repetitions. Because most writers need someone to be blatantly honest about the quality of their words.

I don’t know how often Gary paid or didn’t pay for editorial feedback on his novel, but I do know this: Gary works as a professional editor. So I am thinking maybe if you hear that a professional editor needed feedback on his novel, you will also be motivated to get some feedback on your aspiring-to-be-professional work, as well, whether you are an editor or not.

Recently, someone suggested to me that Gary might not be ready to present his success strategies to other writers because his success was so fledgling. To which I want to gamely reply, Like heck it is! Gary’s success goes all the way back to 2005, when he got in the game with the other professionals. He has been in the publishing game for the long haul. What we are seeing now is the payoff of over a decade of affirming to himself that he could sell his book better than anyone. Apparently, that is exactly what he needed to prove to himself because that is exactly what he is doing.

So, I’d like to offer a standing ovation to Gary Corbin for sticking with his dream of publishing his novel, Lying In Judgment, for making it better, and for knowing when it was time to take his success into his own hands. Well done, Gary. You are a terrific example for all writers, and especially for novelists who are only a few decisions away from deciding to approve of themselves.

Oh, and by the way, I have jury duty this week, and I swear to God, I didn’t do it. But what if I had…?

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Happy Autumn! Let Fall Inspire Your Creativity

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Three cheers for hunker down and write time. Set some goals to be more happy and productive than you’ve ever been! Now begins a great time of year to write your heart out.

Sweater weather, yay! Wrap yourself up and go for a walk on a brisk day so your creative mind can get into the flow. Observe the fall beauty and see what comes up for you. (Check out handmade sweaters on Etsy–they are just fun to look at.)

Happy homecoming! Whether you are a big football fan or not, I wrote an inspirational take on the fall ritual of homecoming in my latest ezine (which has recently undergone a name change). See what you think!

Bring the outdoors in with a little nature meditation. What do you have on hand? Grapes, gourds, apples, acorns? Whatever you can harvest from the yard or markets, bring it in, and make a little display out of it. Check out autumn display ideas on Pinterest for inspiration.

Get a head start on that next book. Start thinking about your NaNoWriMo topic now, if you are planning to participate. I am thinking about it. Excited to consider the possibilities.

Autumn scents are awesome. I heard about some cool candles from Makers Of Wax Goods that have crackling wicks that I want to try. But if you know of any other awesome fall candles, please add your suggestions to the comments. (With wicks only, please, no wax melters.)

Dig into some daily rituals. Morning pages? Afternoon tea time? Daily exercise? Planting bulbs for spring? Play time with the pets? Which rituals help you feel grounded and happy? Whatever the answer is, those are the right things to do.

Want to earn more? This seems to be on every writer’s mind lately. That’s why I created my online video course on The Art Of Selling Articles Like A Seasoned Pro. This is the show-me-the-money-course for journalists.

Get ready for winter. Throw yourself into some of those fall chores that just have to get done before the cold weather hits. I know they don’t sound like fun, but sometimes focusing on an methodical external task can do wonders for your creativity. Now that I can spin like Julie Andrews in the Sound Of Music in the wood shed, I am here to tell you that it just feels good, too.

Activate your creativity. Take a look at creativity books from my bookshelf that I highly recommend. I took some time to round them up for you.

Think autumn. I’m featuring autumn-themed posters in my Etsy shop right now. Check them out, if you like digital download wall art.

Do something new daily. I’m doing a #daily #decor post on Instagram and I’m enjoying the routine, as well as the opportunity to take a closer look at my surroundings (which I so often ignore when I am absorbed in my writing).

Celebrate fall and then write about it. So many of my articles have been inspired by personal experience. Either something happens and then I later write about it or I plan an activity and write about it. Check out my autumn idea prompt book for your own stories and articles.

More ideas! I wrote a post on Autumn indulgences for writers a few years back. Click here for more inspiration.

Spruce Up That Platform. Last but not least, fall is a great time to consolidate your online platform and then update it any ways that might be needed. I’ve written about this and I teach three video courses that will help you clarify and communicate all that you offer.

Christina Katz, a veteran writer, author and coach with over a decade and a half of experience and a wealth of techniques to share, is focused on making the world a saner, more expressive place. She helps folks become more creative for personal enjoyment, professional development and transformational growth. Whether you are a professional creative or hope to become one some day, Christina can help you embrace your personal strengths, explore your creative possibilities, and evolve incrementally into your most inspiring self. If you are ready to achieve creative consistency in your life and career, email her about monthly coaching calls. To learn more about increasing your creative confidence, please check out Christina’s online school and stay tuned for ways to become a Beta User for her next new course. Subscribe to The Prosperous Creative for the latest news and discounts and get these blog posts delivered to your inbox so you never miss a post.

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Celebrating One Year Of Become Your Own Writing Coach

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A little over a year ago, I wanted to figure out how to use the most current technology to create a monthly coaching series. I had some ups and downs in the first year, but I’ve settled into a happy groove over the past few months and I think more writers will love what I am offering.

The idea behind BYOWC is that everyone wants a writing coach but not everyone has a budget for personal coaching. For example, my phone consult rate is $150 an hour, and I recognize that not everyone wants to spend that much.

But for just $10 a month, paid by subscription, you can look forward to a ten-minute video pep talk on a specific writing-related topic in your inbox on the first Tuesday of each month. Subscribers also receive a tips lists, summarize the key points in each pep talk, and a goal-setting sheet for the month, which they can update to track goals.

Examples of topics include: finding your voice, getting paid on time every time, and how to do effective research without wasting time.

It sounds so simple, a pep talk, some tips, and a goal-setting worksheet, but writers needs are complex these days. There have never been so many distractions online. All of my tools for creatives center on offering encouraging words and advice for busy creatives. Sometimes we just need someone to remind us how simple it is to succeed in this business. Sometimes we just need someone to help us focus our attention. And sometimes we just need to hear some encouraging words from someone who knows what we are going through.

So what are you waiting for? Why not sign up now for Become Your Own Writing Coach and I’ll send you the pep talk and tips for How To Get Paid On Time Every Time. You’ll have to wait for your first subscription to get the goal-setting worksheets, but they are worth waiting for.

BYOWC BadgeI have been teaching writers how to identify and reach their goals for over 15 years. Writers like working with me because I combine just the right amount of inspiration with just the right amount of butt-kicking.

Nobody offers the level of focused care that I offer. And no one can do what I do. So what in the world are you waiting for? Sign up for your subscription today and I will send you the video and tips that will help you get paid on time every time.

Other coaches and experts offer formulas. But those formulas are not customized to your needs and dreams. My Become Your Own Writing Coach program lets you stop beating yourself up for what you haven’t yet accomplished, and start discovering what you truly long to accomplish.

So much inspiration, so much time! Please subscribe to the Create, Share, Prosper blog and sign up for The Prosperous Creative ezine for exclusive discounts you won’t find elsewhere. Click on the Enter School tab above to put your creativity to prosperous use right now. Join my monthly pep talk video series because all the other prosperous writers are doing it. Like words? Check out my Etsy shop. And you haven’t seen anything, if you haven’t seen all the helpful offerings in my online shop. Thanks for reading and thanks for sharing this post with fellow creatives!

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I heard about these illustrated autobiographies from Brain Pickings and I am utterly charmed by them.

I added a couple to my short list for holiday gifts and thought they might appeal to some of my like-minded friends.

So here you go.

Library of Luminaries: Friday Kahlo, An Illustrated Biography

Library of Luminaries: Virginia Woolf, An Illustrated Biography

Library of Luminaries: Coco Chanel, An Illustrated Biography

Library of Luminaries: Jane Austen, An Illustrated Biography

Aren’t they fun? Let me know what you think!

So much inspiration, so much time! Please subscribe to the Create, Share, Prosper blog and sign up for The Prosperous Creative ezine for exclusive discounts you won’t find elsewhere. Click on the Enter School tab above to put your creativity to prosperous use right now. Join my monthly pep talk video series because all the other prosperous writers are doing it. Like words? Check out my Etsy shop. And you haven’t seen anything, if you haven’t seen all the helpful offerings in my online shop. Thanks for reading and thanks for sharing this post with fellow creatives!

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