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We have two winners today!

And the winner of My One Square Inch of Alaska by Sharon Short is…

maribelle1963!

And the winner of The Glass Wives, A Novel by Amy Sue Nathan is…

Hillary Fuhrman!

If you missed the drawing, you can read all about this book and author here.

I need each winner to send me an e-mail with your mailing address so that I can send your info on to your author and she can send you your signed book!

Please send your address in an e-mail to “christina at christina katz dot com” at your earliest convenience.

Thank you to everyone who participated. You are doing a great job answering the daily questions!

Let’s keep it up all month long!

There is still time to comment for a chance to win today’s drawing. :)

You can view a list of all of our awesome giveaway authors here.

And you can read “Da Rules” here.

You can see the book covers all in one place on our Pinterest page here.

Onward!

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Many moons ago, I was giving a presentation at Village Books in Bellingham, Washington for my first book, Writer Mama. Afterwards a woman came up to apologize for chasing her toddler daughter around while I was speaking. I thanked her for coming and for bringing her daughter. That woman was Jen Karuza Schile.

Many moons later, when I came back up to Bellingham to speak and teach at the Chuckanut Writer’s Conference last year, she hosted a lovely gathering of writer mamas for me at her home. Jen now has three children and continues to be a writer mama extraordinaire, as well as one of the sweetest people you will ever meet. Please give it up for Jen Karuza Schile!

Introducing Jen Karuza Schile

A multi-generation commercial fishing family member and mother of three young children, Jen Karuza Schile blogs regularly about life inside a commercial fishing family.  She is the author of Captain of Her Crew: The Commercial Fishing Mom’s Guide to Navigating Life at Home.

Jen has published over 100 articles in National Fisherman magazine and was published in Pacific Fishing. Her personal essays have been published in the anthologies A Matter of Choice: 25 People Who Transformed Their Lives, Steady as She Goes: Women’s Adventures at Sea, and P.S. What I Didn’t Say: Unsent Letters to Our Female Friends.

Jen facilitated a writing circle and contributed to the newsletter for the Story Circle Network, a national organization of women writers. She received an honorable mention in the memoir category of the Writer’s Digest Writing Competition.

Jen is a founding administrator of the Facebook group Commercial Fishing Families & Friends and is a featured blogger on the National Fisherman magazine website. She spoke on a panel about commercial fishing families at Pacific Marine Expo in November 2012. She has also contributed to the website Happy Homefront, a website for geographically challenged families, and to AlaskaJobFinder.com. Learn more about Jen.

Learn about Captain of Her Crew: The Commercial Fishing Mom’s Guide to Navigating Life at Home

As a commercial fishing wife, girlfriend, or mother, do you feel like you spend your life waiting and worrying from one fishing season to the next? Are you frustrated when, just as you get a routine established after your partner heads to sea, it is time for him to come home—and for you to switch gears once again? Do you simultaneously enjoy and grapple with the commercial fishing lifestyle? You aren’t alone.

Inside Captain of Her Crew: The Commercial Fishing Mom’s Guide to Navigating Life at Home, you’ll find advice that will enable you to take the helm and successfully steer your way through the specific challenges facing the commercial fishing wife and mother at home. Readers of this thoughtful guide will grow in admiration and compassion for their spouses, families, and—equally importantly—themselves.

I asked Jen three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

Self-expression, as it pertains to my blog, my professional writing, my platform, and my life, is both a joy and a challenge. I question myself all the time: How can I best convey my thoughts and feelings? Will they be misunderstood? Am I being honest, or am I sugarcoating to make things look better than they really are? Do I feel safe expressing my experience, my opinions, and myself? To whom am I expressing my thoughts and feelings? Who will read this? Have I expressed too much? Have I expressed too little? In spite of all of the questions, self-expression is an incredibly vital and satisfying part of my life today. No question.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

Self-expression means feeling safe enough to be honest about my life experiences and share them with my readers, whether those experiences are considered “good” or “bad.” Every inch of my being believes that it is our responsibility as human beings to share what we have lived through and learned from. Whether our path has been filled with joy or pain, or some of both, it is our obligation to share what we have taken away from the journey.

In my life, I have often relied upon the experience and wisdom of others to make me feel less alone and to find common ground. Therefore, I feel that I must also contribute to this process through my blog, my e-book, my professional writing, and even things as simple as Facebook posts.

3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

I started my blog seven years ago because I wanted to specifically address the issues and lifestyle of the commercial fishing family and build a similar online community. Prior to launching my blog, there was next to nothing in the public realm focusing specifically on life inside the commercial fishing family. We had commercial fishing TV shows, books about tragedies and narrow escapes, and a few memoirs, but nothing focused specifically upon the modern-day commercial fishing family.

The response and affirmation from readers throughout the years has been incredible. I have a varied audience that ranges from commercial fishing insiders, to family and personal friends, to those who do not know or even care about the commercial fishing industry. The latter group connects with me through my writing on topics like “seasonally singe motherhood,” the loss of pets, childhood hearing loss, anxiety, school, and marriage.

I do this because I love to write and connect with others. Writing about one’s life is not always easy, and it can create a certain amount of fear. However, this is what I’ve been called to do since I was a small child. If my words and stories can make one person feel less alone and uncertain, it is all worth it.

And Now, Your Turn…

You remember how this works right?

Please read the complete rules at least once!

I ask you a question.

You answer in the comments for your chance to win a book each day.

Please just respond once, even if you make a typo. ;)

Answer in the comments in 50-200 words (no less and no more to qualify to win one of today’s books).

Identity is a huge issue for writers to explore. It’s also a never-ending journey, because we are all constantly changing and growing, as we are all meant to do. Make me a list that answers this question: who are you? What list of words describes you?

Ready, set, comment! I will hold the drawing tomorrow and post the results here in my blog.

Thanks for participating in the Writer Mama Every-Day-In-May Book Giveaway!

And thanks for spreading the word. We will be giving away great books by wonderful women authors all month.

View the complete list of authors and books.

View the giveaway Pinterest board.

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We have one winner today!

And the winner of I Used To Be Snow White…But Then I Drifted by Gina Barreca is…

Sue LeBreton!

If you missed the drawing, you can read all about this book and author here.

I need each winner to send me an e-mail with your mailing address so that I can send your info on to your author and she can send you your signed book!

Please send your address in an e-mail to “christina at christina katz dot com” at your earliest convenience.

Thank you to everyone who participated. You are doing a great job answering the daily questions!

Let’s keep it up all month long!

There is still time to comment for a chance to win today’s drawing. :)

You can view a list of all of our awesome giveaway authors here.

And you can read “Da Rules” here.

You can see the book covers all in one place on our Pinterest page here.

Onward!

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Today I’m hosting two talented and hard-working writers from one of my favorite places, the Midwest. Thanks for helping me welcome Sharon Short and Amy Sue Nathan!

Introducing Sharon Short

Sharon Short is the author of the novel My One Square Inch of Alaska (Penguin Plume, 2013) in which a pair of siblings escape the strictures of the 1950s industrial Ohio town on the adventure of a lifetime. Opening chapters of this novel earned Sharon a 2012 Ohio Arts Council individual artist’s grant and a 2011 Montgomery County (Ohio) Arts & Cultural District Literary Artist Fellowship.

Sharon is the Literary Life columnist for the Dayton Daily News, directs the renowned Antioch Writers’ Workshop in Yellow Springs, Ohio, and is an adjunct instructor of creative writing and composition at Antioch University Midwest.

Sharon’s book Sanity Check: A Collection of Columns includes 100 reader-favorites of her weekly humor and lifestyle column that ran in the Dayton Daily News from 2002-2012. Sharon has also published two mystery series (Josie Toadfern and Patricia Delaney) as well as short stories and essays. She holds a B.A. in English from Wright State University and an M.A. in English from Bowling Green State University. She lives in Ohio with her husband and is the mother of two adult daughters.

Learn about My One Square Inch of Alaska Penguin Plume, January 2013

A pair of siblings escape—along with a Siberian Husky—the strictures of their 1950s industrial Ohio town on the adventure of a lifetime.

Talented high-school senior Donna Lane yearns to leave her Midwestern home in pursuit of a career in design, but she feels obligated to stay and care for her helpless father and her younger brother, Will. In fragile health and obsessed with the television show Sergeant Striker and the Alaskan Wild, Will’s dearest companion is a mute Siberian Husky named Trusty.

The arrival of two outsiders inspires Donna to consider her dreams anew. Then Will falls sick, and Donna packs up their yellow convertible—with Will, Trusty, and a road atlas—and sets off for the Alaskan Territory. A portrait of a singular American moment, My One Square Inch of Alaska is a moving tale of exploration and love—human and canine—that dares to believe the impossible.

I asked Sharon three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

Yes, definitely! Having a voice and sharing an opinion or a point of view is the only way to honestly interact with other people, to get to truly know them and to let them know oneself.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

My point of view mostly comes to life through my characters and novels. In ‘real’ life, I appreciate discourse with others, including listening to others’ differing points of view, but always honestly (and hopefully respectfully) sharing my point of view. I also am a big believer in giving (and accepting) encouragement, and try to give plenty of that to my family, friends, colleagues, and students in conversations, written notes, or messages through all the means available to us today.

3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

Well, I like to think an encouraging note or word brightens the day of my family, friends, colleagues, readers and students. I think in this ‘high-tech, low touch’ world, just hearing (or reading) ‘thank you!’ or ‘I’m rooting for you!’ can mean so much. I try to see everyone through the view of grace, as in we all mess up, we all need encouragement, we all need forgiveness, love and kindness, and I hope this view comes through in my fiction as well as in my every day communications.

Introducing Amy Sue Nathan

Amy Sue Nathan lives and writes near Chicago where she hosts the popular blog, Women’s Fiction Writers. She has published articles in Huffington Post, Chicago Tribune and New York TimesOnline among many others. Amy is the proud mom of a son and a daughter in college, and a willing servant to two rambunctious rescued dogs.

Learn about The Glass Wives, A Novel St. Martin’s Griffin, May 14, 2013

When a tragic car accident ends the life of Richard Glass, it also upends the lives of Evie and Nicole, and their children. There’s no love lost between the widow and the ex. In fact, Evie sees a silver lining in all this heartache—the chance to rid herself of Nicole once and for all. But Evie wasn’t counting on her children’s bond with their baby half-brother, and she wasn’t counting on Nicole’s desperate need to hang on to the threads of family, no matter how frayed.

Strapped for cash, Evie cautiously agrees to share living expenses—and her home—with Nicole and the baby. But when Evie suspects that Nicole is determined to rearrange more than her kitchen, Evie must decide who she can trust. More than that, she must ask: what makes a family?

I asked Amy three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

Absolutely. But to me, self-expression is more than simply writing fiction or a blog post or an essay or an article. It can be rearranging the furniture in the living room, which I did about a year ago, after about thirteen years of everything being in exactly the same place. I didn’t redecorate—everything is the same, just in different spots. The sofa’s on an angle, the chairs are no longer symmetrically placed in front of the window, I swapped the lamps.  Doing this reminded me that what we have isn’t necessarily what’s old or boring, predictable or staid, it’s all in how we look at it.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

To me it’s more a function of being myself and not obsessing over what others think. Not that I ignore opinions, but in everyday life, with most situations, it’s my opinion that matters most in my personal decision-making. And being true to myself is a function of self-expression. The clothes I wear, the food I eat, the people I spend time with—those choices express how I feel about myself and about others.

3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

I’d like to think the writing part of my self-expression package impacts others more than the choices I make about a scarf, necklace or where to place a photo on a mantel.  In my writing I aim, once again, to figure things out for myself, not to teach a lesson or set down a mandate. But if I’ve learned one thing through all the writing and publishing I’ve done in the past seven years, it’s that there are more things that make us all similar than different.  So when my writing, whether fiction or non-fiction, strikes a chord with another person, it’s just another bit of proof that that’s true. And that’s always a good thing.

And Now, Your Turn…

You remember how this works right?

Please read the complete rules at least once!

I ask you a question.

You answer in the comments for your chance to win a book each day.

Please just respond once, even if you make a typo. ;)

Answer in the comments in 50-200 words (no less and no more to qualify to win one of today’s books).

What is the most beautiful place on earth to you and why? How does this place make you feel? How has it earned a special place in your heart?

Ready, set, comment! I will hold the drawing tomorrow and post the results here in my blog.

Thanks for participating in the Writer Mama Every-Day-In-May Book Giveaway!

And thanks for spreading the word. We will be giving away great books by wonderful women authors all month.

View the complete list of authors and books.

View the giveaway Pinterest board.

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We have two winners today!

And the winner of The Unfinished Works of Elizabeth D. by Nichole Bernier is…

Bonnie Franks!

And the winner of The Comfort Of Lies By Randy Susan Meyers by Randy Susan Meyers is…

MLTCG!

If you missed the drawing, you can read all about these two great books and authors here.

I need each winner to send me an e-mail with your mailing address so that I can send your info on to your author and she can send you your signed book!

Please send your address in an e-mail to “christina at christina katz dot com” at your earliest convenience.

Thank you to everyone who participated. You are doing a great job answering the daily questions!

Let’s keep it up all month long!

There is still time to comment for a chance to win today’s drawing. :)

You can view a list of all of our awesome giveaway authors here.

And you can read “Da Rules” here.

You can see the book covers all in one place on our Pinterest page here.

Onward!

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Any woman who survived early coeducation at our Alma Mater, Dartmouth College, has my undying respect, and Gina Barreca not only survived it, she wrote a book about it.

As for how we met, I’m not sure which came first:

  • I saw Gina Barreca at the Erma Bombeck Conference website.
  • I saw Gina Barreca posting frequently and with enthusiasm in the Women of Dartmouth Facebook group.
  • I realized that Gina Barreca was the author of the soon to be reissued, I Used To Be Snow White…But Then I Drifted.

It’s all a social media blur, but in a good way. Once I became familiar with Gina Barreca, I decided to invite her to join the giveaway. She’s exuberant, funny, and fabulous. And from her example, I think any woman writer, writing humorous or not, can find a great  model of how to wield irreverent intelligence shrewdly enough to stand out in any crowd.

Introducing Gina Barreca

Gina Barreca is most recently the editor of Make Mine A Double: Why Women Like Us Like To Drink (or Not) published by the University Press of New England in 2011 and author of It’s Not That I’m Bitter: How I Learned to Stop Worrying About Visible Panty Lines and Conquered the World (St. Martin’s, 2009). She has appeared on 20/20, The Today Show, CNN, the BBC, NPR, Oprah, and Dr. Phil, to discuss gender, power, politics, and humor.

Her earlier books include the bestselling They Used to Call Me Snow White But I Drifted: Women’s Strategic Use of Humor (which is being reissued in a “classic” edition by UPNE in 2013) and Babes in Boyland: A Personal History of Coeducation in the Ivy League; her books have been translated into several languages, including Chinese, Spanish, Japanese, and German.

Gina, whose columns from the Hartford Courant are distributed worldwide by the McClatchy-Tribune Syndicate, is Professor of English and Feminist Theory at the University of Connecticut. Her B.A. is from Dartmouth College, where she was one of the first classes of women, her  M.A. is from an all-women’s college at Cambridge University, and her Ph.D. is from the City University of New York. Gina blogs regularly for Psychology Today, The Chronicle of Higher Education, and The Huffington Post; she has also written for The New York Times, The Independent (of London), Cosmopolitan, The Harvard Business Review, and other newspapers and magazines worldwide. She grew up in Brooklyn, lives with her husband in Connecticut, and has friends all over the place.  www.ginabarreca.com

Learn about They Used To Call Me Snow White…But I Drifted by
UPNE May 2013

Published by Viking in 1991 and issued as a paperback through Penguin Books in 1992, Snow White became an instant classic for both academic and general audiences interested in how women use humor and what others (men) think about funny women.

Barreca, who draws on the work of scholars, writers, and comedians to illuminate a sharp critique of the gender-specific aspects of humor, provides laughs and provokes arguments as she shows how humor helps women break rules and occupy center stage.

Barreca’s new introduction provides a funny and fierce, up-to-the-minute account of the fate of women’s humor over the past twenty years, mapping what has changed in our culture–and questioning what hasn’t.

I asked Gina three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

The stories we tell about ourselves and our lives not only reflect our worlds: they create them. The perspectives we bring to an event or a situation shape its meaning. What will be hysterically funny and light to me, for example, might be something you see as weighty and sentimentally significant. Neither perspective is more correct or accurate because they are both expressions of our individual selves.

I tend to bring the party with me for several reasons, one being that my mother died when I was very young thereby inadvertently teaching me to see the joy and absurdity in every moment of every day whenever possible–but I have friends whose visions of the world have a more shadowed nuance, and who play better after dark than I do and their work is of great value. Every form of expression is self-expression so, yep, it’s important.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

When I learned that I could speak up, speak out and stop apologizing or feeling embarrassed for telling the truth about my own experiences, emotions, ambitions and needs, I realized I could write the way I always wanted to write: with joy and generosity. I’ve learned to write from the heart as well as from the head; as a scholar and professor, my early training helped me discipline my research and my writing habits but as a writer of humor, memoirs, personal essays and now as a national columnist, I’ve had to change my relationship to the very act of writing. It’s become more of a conversation and less of a lecture.

Only within the last ten years have I come to realize that when I talk about what I’ve always regarded as my deepest eccentricities and weirdnesses, I’m talking about stuff everybody–or at least every woman who is too old for work study and too young for cremation–will understand.

3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

I write and I speak; I pretty much do both as much as I can and I know my vocation is to help others do both better, too. I teach at UConn and I give lectures about women’s writing and the importance of women’s humor in venues around the country–and around the world. When 300, or 3000, women in a room start laughing together, we raise the roof and we raise the sense of possibilities in our lives. When we work, speak, and laugh together, we all benefit. The best self-expression embraces others.

And Now, Your Turn…

You remember how this works right?

Please read the complete rules at least once!

I ask you a question.

You answer in the comments for your chance to win a book each day.

Please just respond once, even if you make a typo. ;)

Answer in the comments in 50-200 words (no less and no more to qualify to win one of today’s books).

What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to you? Maybe it is only funny now, in retrospect. Whether funny then, now or both, you are invited to share a story that tickled you funny.

Ready, set, comment! I will hold the drawing tomorrow and post the results here in my blog.

Thanks for participating in the Writer Mama Every-Day-In-May Book Giveaway!

And thanks for spreading the word. We will be giving away great books by wonderful women authors all month.

View the complete list of authors and books.

View the giveaway Pinterest board.

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We have one winner today!

And the winner of The Business Of Baby by Jennifer Margulis is…

Allena Tapia!

If you missed the drawing, you can read all about this book and author here.

I need each winner to send me an e-mail with your mailing address so that I can send your info on to your author and she can send you your signed book!

Please send your address in an e-mail to “christina at christina katz dot com” at your earliest convenience.

Thank you to everyone who participated. You are doing a great job answering the daily questions!

Let’s keep it up all month long!

There is still time to comment for a chance to win today’s drawing. :)

You can view a list of all of our awesome giveaway authors here.

And you can read “Da Rules” here.

You can see the book covers all in one place on our Pinterest page here.

Onward!

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We have two wonderful novelists participating in our giveaway today. Please help me welcome Nichole Bernier & Randy Susan Meyers!

Introducing Nichole Bernier

Nichole Bernier is author of the novel The Unfinished Works of Elizabeth D., a finalist for the New England Independent Booksellers fiction award. A Contributing Editor for Conde Nast Traveler magazine for 14 years, she has also written for publications including Psychology Today, Elle, Health, Self, Salon, and The Huffington Post. She received her master’s in journalism from Columbia University, and is a founder of the literary blog Beyond the Margins. Nichole lives outside of Boston with her husband and five children, and can be found online at nicholebernier.com.

Learn about The Unfinished Work of Elizabeth D., Crown/Random House, hardcover June 2012 & paperback March 2013

Before there were blogs, there were journals. And in them we’d write as we really were, not as we wanted to appear. But there comes a day when journals outlive us. And with them, our secrets.

Summer vacation on Great Rock Island was supposed to be a restorative time for Kate, who’d lost her close friend Elizabeth in a sudden accident. But when she inherits a trunk of Elizabeth’s journals, they reveal a woman far different than the cheerful wife and mother Kate thought she knew.

The complicated portrait of Elizabeth—her troubled upbringing, and her route to marriage and motherhood—makes Kate question not just their friendship, but her own deepest beliefs about loyalty and honesty at a period of uncertainty in her own marriage. When an unfamiliar man’s name appears in the pages, Kate realizes the extent of what she didn’t know about her friend, including where she was really going on the day she died.

The more Kate reads, the more she learns the complicated truth of who Elizabeth really was, and rethinks her own choices as a wife, mother, and professional, and the legacy she herself would want to leave behind.

I asked Nichole three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

Absolutely. But probably with less urgency than when I was younger. Back then, there was a sort of desperation to make my mark as a writer, and to protect the time and space that was starting to feel so scarce as we were starting a family. There’s certainly no extra time now that we have a large family, but at least I have faith in my ability to make time and prioritize the activities and creativity that mean the most to me. It happens on its own; there’s no need to yell to be heard, or to rush. And the older I get, the more I put a premium on listening and being inspired by others’ work too. And on helping my children learn to express themselves, verbally and creatively.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

Self expression is possible in so many things. It’s my fiction and nonfiction, thank you notes and birthday cards, even a thoughtful observation on Twitter or Facebook. A well-made apple pie. A meaningfully organized bookshelf. (Though mine are a bit more like they were done by code, waiting to be figured out.) Most of all, it’s making sure that when I open my mouth I’m saying what I really mean, not just the easy or expected thing. This was a big driver behind my novel of the young mother, discovered posthumously through her journals to be so much more than she presented to the world, even those who thought they knew her best.


3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

I hope the things I write bring a unique way of looking at things that is meaningful and true and authentic. I have little patience with posturing or superficiality. I learned something interesting recently from Andre Dubus about the origins of the word “sincere.” In the olden days of Rome (I have no idea how old we’re talking), when stone walls were repaired, real mortar was costly and time consuming. Some masons cut corners by using melted wax sprinkled with rock dust. But when it got hot, obviously, it wouldn’t hold. “Sin-cere” was a craftsman who didn’t take cheap shortcuts and hide flaws using wax. Or so says Andre Dubus.

Introducing Randy Susan Meyers

Randy Susan Meyers was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY and now lives with her husband in Boston, where she teaches writing seminars at the Grub Street Writers’ Center.

The drama of Randy Susan Meyers’ novels is informed by her work with violent offenders and families impacted by emotional and family violence. Meyers’ debut novel, The Murderer’s Daughters was named a “Must Read Book” and one of the “2011 Ten Best Works of Fiction” by the Massachusetts Center for the Book.

Randy is a founding member of Beyond The Margins, a multi-writer site dedicated to the craft of writing and the business of publishing. She is also a regular contributor to The Huffington Post and has recently co-authored the guide What To Do Before Your Book Launch with writer MJ Rose.

Learn about The Comfort of Lies from Atria Books/Simon & Schuster February 2013

“Happiness at someone else’s expense came at a price. Tia had imagined judgment from the first kiss that she and Nathan shared. All year, she’d waited to be punished for being in love, and in truth, she believed that whatever consequences came her way would be deserved.”

Five years ago, Tia fell into obsessive love with a man she could never have. Married, and the father of two boys, Nathan was unavailable in every way. When she became pregnant, he disappeared, and she gave up her baby for adoption.

Five years ago, Caroline, a dedicated pathologist, reluctantly adopted a baby to please her husband. She prayed her misgivings would disappear; instead, she’s questioning whether she’s cut out for the role of wife and mother.

Five years ago, Juliette considered her life ideal: she had a solid marriage, two beautiful young sons, and a thriving business. Then she discovered Nathan’s affair. He promised he’d never stray again, and she trusted him.

But when Juliette intercepts a letter to her husband from Tia that contains pictures of a child with a deep resemblance to her husband, her world crumbles once more. How could Nathan deny his daughter? And if he’s kept this a secret from her, what else is he hiding? Desperate for the truth, Juliette goes in search of the little girl. And before long, the three women and Nathan are on a collision course with consequences that none of them could have predicted.

Riveting and arresting, The Comfort of Lies explores the collateral damage of infidelity and the dark, private struggles many of us experience but rarely reveal.

Watch The Comfort of Lies Book Trailer

I asked Randy three questions about our giveaway’s theme topic, self-expression:

1. Is self-expression an important part of your life today, why or why not?

I am not artistic via paint or clay, nor can I manage crafts with any panache. I do enjoy gardening—a form of self-expression that frees me to be in the moment, but it is truly the self-expression of writing—of telling my truth through words—that suffuses my life.

Write a book that breaks your own heart. That’s one of the reminders I wrote myself before outlining my novel. Writing towards the worst makes me braver—a trait I dearly need to employ more often. In my family, my sister and I are known for doing our ‘death watches’—always waiting for people to disappear and disaster to strike. Reading and writing about the dark side seems to be one of the ways in which I can lighten up.

Lord knows it’s better than whiskey.

2. What does self-expression mean to you and how do you do it in the world?

As a writer, I’ve learned that reaching deep isn’t always comfortable. (My daughters will read this! My husband will think I’m portraying him!) But I push myself to write with a figurative knife held to my own throat, so that my work will hold as much emotional truth as possible.

For me, writing transmogrifies fact into fiction, and thus, soothes my soul.

I used to play a song for my daughters, from Free to Be You and Me, that swore “crying got the sad out of you.” That’s kind of what writing brings me—it gets the sad, the mad, and the glad out of me.

Writing calms me. Writing excites me. Writing sorts out my world.

3. How does your self-expression impact the world—your family, your friends, your readers, and everyone else?

While writing my first novel, The Murderer’s Daughters, I accessed dark emotional truths. I took real events (my father trying to kill my mother) and then punted the reality into a far more dramatic story. Fiction. However, emotional truth, the stuff of  trauma can reveal, may offer  a gift to the reader — but it’s often ripped from the writer in a way they don’t immediately recognize.

Writing that book meant digging deep into family secrets and crypts. Family facts weren’t really revealed so much as a family culture was uncovered and combed through. After the book was published, after I raised my head from the comforting minutia of plot and structure and query letters and editorial letters, I realized I wasn’t telling fairy tales. I’d ripped away denial that I’d spent years perfecting, denial made up of food and books and television and all the myriad ways we keep ourselves at a distance from ourselves.

Hopefully, mixing up all that fact and fancy turned into nourishing meal for the reader, if cooked and served correctly and honestly, it’s bound to leave the writer with a bit of indigestion. Yet, once it has passed, allowing for that depth of self-expression leaves one far freer.

And Now, Your Turn…

You remember how this works right?

Please read the complete rules at least once!

I ask you a question.

You answer in the comments for your chance to win a book each day.

Please just respond once, even if you make a typo. ;)

Answer in the comments in 50-200 words (no less and no more to qualify to win one of today’s books).

Describe a moment of heartbreak from your life that you now know was a gift. Write it in the third person if it’s too hard to write it in first person. Be as specific or ambiguous as you want.

Ready, set, comment! I will hold the drawing tomorrow and post the results here in my blog.

Thanks for participating in the Writer Mama Every-Day-In-May Book Giveaway!

And thanks for spreading the word. We will be giving away great books by wonderful women authors all month.

View the complete list of authors and books.

View the giveaway Pinterest board.

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We have two winners today!

And the winner of Market Street by Anita Hughes is…

Sally Huffstetler!

And the winner of The Cottage At Glass Beach by Heather Barbieri is…

MLTCG!

If you missed the drawing, you can read all about these two great books and authors here.

I need each winner to send me an e-mail with your mailing address so that I can send your info on to your author and she can send you your signed book!

Please send your address in an e-mail to “christina at christina katz dot com” at your earliest convenience.

Thank you to everyone who participated. You are doing a great job answering the daily questions!

Let’s keep it up all month long!

There is still time to comment for a chance to win today’s drawing. :)

You can view a list of all of our awesome giveaway authors here.

And you can read “Da Rules” here.

You can see the book covers all in one place on our Pinterest page here.

Onward!

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Announcing My Fall Teaching & Coaching Calendar

I have updated my fall teaching and coaching calendar as follows. All of my offerings make great Mother’s Day Gifts, either from someone else or as a present to yourself!

The 21 Moments Writing Challenge

We go to four levels of The 21 Moments Writing Challenge in the fall! Go, us!

I will offer four rounds in September, October, and November 2013.

Round five is slated for January 2014.

The next round begins on September 1st. You may register May 2nd through August 30th.

Going forward, no late registrations will be accepted. So please, register early!

You are welcome to register a friend. Be sure to contact me in advance of the start date with all your friend’s details, including the best e-mail to reach them.

You may also retake any rounds you like, even if you have taken them before. But please, the first time through, do not skip rounds and take them in order.

Round One: More info & Register

Round Two: Register

Round Three: Register

Round Four: Register (badge to come!)

Register a Friend Here

Writing Career Classes With Christina Katz

Fall classes will conclude prior to Thanksgiving this year. Go, me!

Registration is now open for fall classes.

Writing & Publishing The Short Stuff: Learn More

  • Wednesday, August 21st (Register now or by August 20th at latest)
  • Wednesday, October 9th (Register now or by October 8th at latest)

60 Ways To Flex Your Content & Prosper In Your Niche: Learn More

  • Thursday, August 22nd (Register now or by August 21st at latest)
  • Thursday, October 10th (Register now or by October 9th at latest)

Discover Your Specialty & Launch Your Platform: Learn More

  • Wednesday, August 21st (Register now or by August 20th at latest)
  • Wednesday, October 9th (Register now or by October 8th at latest)

Pitching Practice: Write Six Queries In Six Weeks: Learn More

  • Thursday, August 22nd (Register now or by August 21st at latest)
  • Thursday, October 10th (Register now or by October 9th at latest)

Micro-publishing For Mom Writers

  • Thursday, August 22nd (Register now or by August 21st at latest)

Become Your Own Imprint, For Serial Micro-publishers

  • Thursday, October 10th (Register now or by October 9th at latest)

    Writing Career Dream Teams With Christina Katz

    Registration is now open for the next round of Dream Teams that run August – December 2013.

    My dream teams have hit their stride. Attracting only writers who are interested in finding out what they can consistently do with what they have learned, these groups shift writers from wanna-be dreamers into professional doers.

    • August 2013 – December 2013 Beginning Dream Team
    • August 2013 – December 2013 Intermediate Dream Team
    • August 2013 – December 2013 Advanced Dream Team

    First-time Dream Team Participants: Learn More & Register

    Returning Dream Team Participants: Register with your discount

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